Ah, yes, you just have to decide to do it, sure.

You talk as if you live in a meritocracy... where all people have free time and the intellectual capacity to become like you if they just worked hard enough.

Let the rest of us know where that place is because I'd like to move there. I love to learn, I don't watch unboxing videos and no, it doesn't necessarily depend on the amount of effort one puts in.